Can I run pythia-6.9b on an RTX 4090?

Yes

Its published weights (13.8 GB) fit in the 21.6 GB an RTX 4090 can use, with room for ≈ 2K tokens of context.

hf download EleutherAI/pythia-6.9b

Files and context on RTX 4090

Each file of pythia-6.9b (and of GGUF versions the site has analyzed), and how much context fits next to it, with the context cache in 16-bit or 8-bit.

pythia-6.9b on other hardware

Popular models that run on RTX 4090

Assumes 90% of the card's memory is usable and at least 4K tokens of context for one conversation, with the context cache in 16-bit unless noted. Fits leaves at least 20% of that memory for context; Tight leaves less.